Most people aren't Warriors, and I'm fine with it. Most people do things that don't make sense, and I'm fine with it. I've learned to accept the non-sense that fills this world. (Part of being a Warrior is accepting that most other people are not Warriors, and accepting them.) Still, the point is that people do things that don't make sense. They whine, complain, and cry over problems they can easily change. They get depressed over problems they cause for themselves.
 For example, lazy people often whine that they don't make more money. Selfish people complain that they don't have more friends. Many people sabotage all their romantic relationships and then complain that they don't have a lover.
 Granted, sometimes when something bad happens to a person it's purely bad luck. For example, you could be sitting in your well-built home while reading the newspaper and a tornado could tear your home up.
 However, usually when you don't like what's happening in your life, it's your own damn fault. It's your fault if you're fat, lazy, uneducated, lonely, etc.
 In the following, I list 75 things that you can do. You choose to do them or not. If you choose not to do these things, then you have no right to complain about your problems; your problems are your fault!
- Stop      watching television.
 - Stop      eating fast food.
 - Stop      eating pizza and fried foods.
 - Stop      driving places that you could easily walk to.
 - Read      at least 1 book a month.
 - Take      classes in what interests you or your vocation.
 - Work      enough to support yourself, and if needed get a new job or second job to      make enough to support yourself. Never stick with a job that doesn't pay      enough to support yourself no matter how much you work.
 - Pay      off your debts and don't go in debt. You can pay off your debts if you      avoid needless expenses, such as cable, overpriced clothes, impractical      decorations, unhealthy snacks, jewelry, etcetera.
 - Don't      buy a car on finance, and don't buy an expensive car if a cheaper one that      works is available.
 - Wake      up early, and get all your work done as quickly as possible. That includes      household chores, as well as your employment.
 - Drink      alcohol less or quit.
 - Do      drugs less or quit.
 - Don't      smoke cigarettes.
 - Don't      eat foods with high fructose corn syrup.
 - Don't      drink soda.
 - Don't      eat sugary foods at all.
 - Don't      drink more than 1 glass of juice per day.
 - Stand      up straight and have good posture.
 - Look      people in the eyes when you talk to them.
 - Smile.
 - Be      polite.
 - Keep      your promises.
 - Wear      a watch, if you can afford it.
 - Eat      breakfast.
 - If      you eat cereal at any time, choose your cereal based on healthiness not      tastiness.
 - Exercise      at least 3 days per week.
 - Walk      often.
 - Always      write with correct spelling and grammar.
 - Never      speak worse about a person behind their back than you do to their face.      (Feel free to say nicer things about a person behind their back than to      their face.)
 - Don't      gossip and don't have a big mouth.
 - Never      judge other people harsher than you judge yourself.
 - Make      New Years resolutions, but make one every day instead of every year.
 - Volunteer.
 - Forgive,      but never forget.
 - Don't      have skeletons in your closet.
 - Keep      as few secrets as reasonably possible.
 - Despite      the rule before this one, keep your friends' secrets.
 - Politely      tell people that you will not betray your friends' trust, when you are      asked about their secrets and such.
 - Volunteering      (i.e. activism) is more important than voting. If you can do both, good      for you. If you only have time for one, volunteer instead of voting. It      makes more of a difference.
 - Privately      question your own values.
 - Avoid      questioning other people's values, especially in public.
 - Listen      more than you talk.
 - Use      a journal to count how many calories you consume per day.
 - Use      a journal to count how many calories you burn per day.
 - If      you want to lose weight, burn slightly more than you consume. If you want      to gain weight, consume slightly more than you burn. If you are happy with      your weight, try to burn the same amount as you consume.
 - Weigh      yourself daily at the same time(s).
 - Write      your daily weight down in a journal.
 - Never      allow the police to search you, your car, or your belongings if you do not      have something to hide.
 - Never      tell other people that you think they or something they are doing is      immoral or sinful.
 - Keep      your moral values and religion to yourself. Use them to direct your own      actions.
 - Ask      people how they are often and listen to their answer.
 - Laugh      at other people's jokes, but not your own.
 - Shower      at least once per day.
 - Wash      your hands, even if you aren't an employee.
 - Take      care of the elderly, which includes spending time with them and talking to      them.
 - Avoid      going places where you need to be waited on.
 - Wait      on yourself wherever possible.
 - Make      your friends look good.
 - Avoid      lying.
 - Don't      pretend to be better than you are. Don't pretend to be more successful,      popular, etcetera.
 - Treat      other people as if they are better than they are. Treat them as if they      are more successful, popular, etcetera.
 - Don't      brag about your talents. Instead, surprise people with them when they just      happen to be called upon.
 - Sit      up straight.
 - Keep      your house clean.
 - If      you have either of them, keep your car and office clean.
 - Stretch      daily. (I do Yoga most mornings.)
 - Dance.
 - Take      dancing lessons if you could use improvement.
 - Ask      other people (e.g. your friends, your co-workers, your boss, etc.) what      their favorite book is, and read it.
 - Ask      their favorite song or band, and listen to it.
 - Ask      their favorite movie, and watch it.
 - Don't      be camera shy.
 - When      your alarm goes off in the morning (if you use one), don't press snooze.
 - Make      a budget and follow it.
 - Always      turning off lights when leaving a room, unless of course there are others      are in the room. For that matter, conserving any unnecessary electricity      usage is key to the future of humanity.
 
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