In life, we make choices. And at times, life can be difficult
Different people put varying weight on different matters; The daughter worries about the next date with her new boyfriend; the mum frets about the risign house hold expenses; the father despairs the day he’ll get retrenched in midst of fresh new faces, which the sone is concerned mainly with how to date the hottest chick in school. It seems, that worries consume our minds on a daily basis.
Problems create a worry, which then converts into stress. The cycle of suffering never ends.
But, is this truly what life is all about? To be in a constant state of panic and feeling stressed out? No, life should not be this way, need not be this way, and must never be this way.
It’s true that we can’t change the world by our minuscule hands. All men are equal because no matter the scale of your worldly achievement, the fact is we can never transcend beyond life and death.
People who can only accept their strengths, but not their faults are the real losers in life. They are destined to suffer, because the truth is no no one is infallible.
Only by accepting who you truly are, together with your innate flaws, then can you draw true power from your inner strength to change yourself for the better. If you keep denying your flaws when people approached you about it, you are actually reinforcing the negative feeling of being trapped in a life you can’t control. Is that what you truly want?
Now, whenever you have a situation on hand and you don’t know what to do about it, tell yourself this. Yes, its challenging, it was my fault and I accept it. No matter how bitter the outcome may be, I refuse to be hit down by something so minor.
Most importantly, give yourself the courage to tackle the problem head-on its easy to run away from the problem. Just walk away from the rubbish dump, and hope some one cleans up the mess for you. Don’t ever succumb to that notion! Facing the problem, accepting the fact that you have to solve it, and then overcoming it through sheer determination is surely more self-fulfilling than to face the guilt and shame of being a escaper for the rest of your life.
No one ever said facing upto reality was easy but then its precisely why we should do it because when you have done so, your loved ones will be really proud of you. You would have truly sown that you are not just capable of receiving love, but also able to radiate love to the people around you. Not many people can do that.
True happiness only appears when people understand that life is difficult, but yet they choose to see it as something good. Never forget the greatest battle lies within. In life, there is always a choice
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